Wrestling for Clarity
The experience felt like Jacob wrestling through the night. Lee did not question whether God was present; he persistently asked God to make the assignment unmistakably clear—to bring a distant, wide-frame vision into focus.
Lee Mooring is a pastor, Christian men’s coach, church consultant, husband, father, and military veteran committed to helping people and organizations reach their God-given potential.
I did not grow up consistently attending church. I went for a few years near the beginning of grade school, but church did not become part of my life again until military boot camp. During my early military years, my attendance and commitment were still off and on.
Looking back, however, I can see that God’s hand of protection was already upon my life. Through deployments, difficult decisions, and seasons when I was not fully committed to Christ, God kept me from dangers I could see—and many I probably never saw.
During a deployment to the United Arab Emirates, my faith became real. That season marked my salvation and baptism. A few years later, while stationed in Minot, North Dakota, I reached another turning point: I knew life had to be different.
I joined the choir—not because I was the greatest singer, but because I needed accountability, fellowship, and a reason to stay out of the clubs on Saturday night.
In Minot, Lee experienced a defining encounter with the Holy Spirit—an unmistakable moment in which God’s call to ministry could no longer be ignored.
The experience felt like Jacob wrestling through the night. Lee did not question whether God was present; he persistently asked God to make the assignment unmistakably clear—to bring a distant, wide-frame vision into focus.
After receiving that call, Lee spoke with his pastor and began training, shadowing leaders, learning, and preparing. The calling was powerful, but faithful preparation would turn that moment into a life of service.
His ministry journey has included serving in the choir, as head usher, communion leader, deacon, Protestant Advisory Council member, men’s ministry pastor, ordained elder, and installed pastor.
Lee served eight years in the United States Marine Corps, completing that chapter as a Sergeant, E-5. He then served eighteen years in the United States Air Force, retiring as a Senior Master Sergeant, E-8.
The Marine Corps taught him boldness, direct communication, determination, and the responsibility of strong leadership. The Air Force strengthened his compassion, diplomacy, and understanding that every challenge does not require a hammer—sometimes effective leadership requires a softer touch.
For more than fifteen years, Lee conducted organizational assessments, evaluated workplace climates, developed leaders, and trained military organizations around the world to communicate, build trust, and accomplish their missions more effectively.
Christian Men2Men began because Lee saw a painful reality: many men attend church, carry responsibility, and quietly struggle without having another brother they can call.
Lee wanted men to know that every week there would be a brother in Christ available to listen, pray, encourage, and walk beside them. Today, Christian Men2Men is a worldwide community of more than 21,000 men.
The vision reaches beyond an online group. Lee desires to see men meeting in person around the world—forming genuine brotherhood, strengthening one another, and becoming better husbands, fathers, leaders, and men of God.
Lee knows what it feels like to be isolated, discouraged, overlooked, and uncertain about which direction to take. He experienced those seasons in church leadership, during his military career, and while transitioning out of military service.
His philosophy is simple: staying stuck often causes us to sink deeper. Faith does not always mean seeing the entire road. Sometimes it means taking the next responsible step and trusting God to redirect us as we move.
Meet people where they are, listen to their story, and capitalize on their strengths to help them reach where God is calling them to go.
Through one-on-one coaching, group coaching, and online courses, Lee primarily helps married Christian men over 35 who know they have greater potential but need clarity, direction, and accountability.
Lee began consulting churches after repeatedly recognizing opportunities to strengthen their structure, improve their flow, reverse declining attendance, and better use the resources God had already placed in their hands.
His consulting combines pastoral understanding with more than fifteen years of military organizational assessment experience. Because he has served on church and ministry staffs around the world—and helped multimillion-dollar organizations operate more effectively—he understands both ministry realities and organizational systems.
In one engagement, Lee helped a church identify an opportunity to rent unused campus space—creating approximately $50,000 in additional annual revenue. He has also helped ministries convert unused assets into resources for mission.
Lee and Ally have been married for nine years, building a partnership rooted in faith, prayer, creativity, and service.
Ally is Lee’s prayer warrior, trusted sounding board, creative partner, and co-producer in ministry. She helps transform ideas into tangible ministry tools, productions, and experiences. Their partnership reflects a shared commitment to serve God, strengthen families, and help others recognize His presence in their stories.
Outside ministry and leadership, Lee enjoys photography and playing pickleball—proof that even a direct Marine occasionally knows how to trade a briefing room for a camera or a paddle.
Lee serves from a non-denominational Christian perspective. He believes the Bible is the Word of God, salvation comes through faith in Jesus Christ, every person has God-given purpose, and genuine spiritual growth should produce practical transformation.
“For we are God’s handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works.” — Ephesians 2:10
Whether you need personal coaching, brotherhood, biblical encouragement, or experienced guidance for your church, choose the next step that fits where you are today.